Talking candidly about sex, PS
Well I wrote that post, and I was confident as I was writing it. But then overnight I was struck with a …
Dear Church, it is time to give our all to our God
I really should be in bed right now, and I hate being irresponsible with my bedtimes. However I felt this strong compulsion …
Talking candidly about sex
TL:DR; One of my many, many, prayers about sex is that God would empower my husband and me to be candid with …
Crying over what I don’t have
Well I have just recently read a post about the “gender pay gap” when it comes to buying a house. And you …
The Church Conundrum, PS
Well…I’ve just spoken once again to my father tonight. And we discussed going to church and he asked me whether I was …
Crushes versus true emotional compatibility
Whenever I have been hit by a crush, it has always been quite a big thing. I have had 2 humongous crushes …
Frustration!
(Once again, I would like to thank anyone who might have been praying for me. Honestly, I cannot begin to tell you …
New humility mantra
I know that the word “mantra” has connotations specifically from another faith. This can also be called an “affirmation” or a “declaration”. …
The wrongest possible way to be “in the right”!
Before I start, I would once again like to thank anyone who might be praying for me. The rate at which understanding …
Cracking the church conundrum…
So I went to a church for the last two Sundays, on 12th February and then a week later on 19th February. …
Thank you for your prayers! Or, Prayer is my love language
You know, this weekend I had really hoped to spend some time writing a few blog posts. Time has truly run away …
Please disturb me!
Well I have just written a post where once again I referred to the fact that I am ambitious. And I was …
The question is not whether or not it is “true love”. The question is whether or not they are truly worth loving
Apologies this post is a little bit all over the place. It is essentially in brain dump format, rather than the format …
How to say “No” – yet further thoughts
I was just reading through an external article about being assertive. Actually, I just read the first part of the post. Assertiveness …
The problem with men…[or Please rescue me Mr Huggie-Wuggie!]
On this blog, I have often stated, very matter-of-factly, that guys fall for me very easily. I have not been bragging about …
Dealing with feelings of jealousy
TL:DR; We are all made in the image of God, we all have unique potentials and capabilities. I LOVE to see people …
Unconditional love versus selflessness
Over the last 11 months since the war in Ukraine started, I have been posting daily prayer requests to my Facebook account. …
Non-confrontational? (For want of a better title) – or offering pre-emptive explanations
As I have recently written on this blog, I am extremely busy at the moment. lf anything that was an understatement, which …
Condescending
Let me put my hands up and admit that I do this – a lot! In fact, a heck of a lot. …
Dear Mr Potential Huggie-Wuggie, will you please sing for me?!
If as a man you are reading this, you might sometimes be tempted to think that I only care about my own …
A fairly terrible story (Will poss think of better title later)
Well I’ve just read a fairly terrible story which got me thinking…a woman was suddenly ditched by her boyfriend, out of the …
Post Ideas: Fri 6th January 2023
[Sorry, this post has not had even an initial edit. I have been writing it in such a tired state, and now …
Different post thoughts
It is past 3.00 am as I start this post and I so need to be sleeping! However, I have already been …
Dealing with social pressure to spend money
TL;DR: I simply unfriend people Typing as someone who is proud to be a Nigerian, and grateful to be a Christian, I …
There’s something about vanlifers…
So yeah, I’ve been watching lots of vanlife videos over the last few months. I’ve been considering vanlife for myself because of …
Thinking about post-wedding dating
[A reminder to everyone, just in case this post does not make sense: as born again Christians we aim to avoid pre-marital …
The difference between love and lust – again?!
Here I am writing out this post…again! You know, I think I’ve finally got it, after such a long time of trying …
Falling in love [versus working out love]
Please note, I have written a post about something similar to this recently. As I am working through this idea in my …
How I am planning not to fall prey to domestic abuse by the grace of God
To make it clear, the previous post is about domestic abuse, which is what triggered the idea of writing this post. You …
Yet another reason to choose character over “falling madly in love”
Thankfully this particular story turned out to have a happy ending, because she lived to tell the tale. And yet so many …
Back again banging my favourite drum!
So here I am again, reading another article on Reddits Am I the A**hole forum. Short story: the ostensible reason for the …
Looking for a polite way to say “Please kindly keep your unsolicited opinions to yourself!”
This post is not about marriage, but is rather about my expressing a pet peeve of mine, and trying to work out …
