Let’s talk about…decision paralysis
“Ponder the path of your feet, And let all your ways be established.” [Also, is a “child-less” life selfish?] You know, one …
But why are people so gullible though?
You know, I think I would naturally fit into the description of a monarchy pragmatist. At heart, I am or should be …
Reddit real life story: Messy husband
Here in this post I will share a real life story that I found on Reddit (Am I the A**hole, where people …
Thoughts on “Religion” and whether or not there is a God
So I’ve just been reading another post on Reddit. I have been mentioning Reddit a lot recently, and there is a good …
Mr Malcolm’s List versus Miss Tosin’s List (SPOILERS)
(Or why I have a list, and you definitely need one too!) Well I have recently taken myself to the cinema and …
Avoiding cheating
Well a few hours ago on Medium I was reading an article about how to spot the signs of cheating. And that …
Confused.me
This is one of those posts that may well be confusing because I am trying to process so many thoughts. Well I …
Confusing but candid post
This is one of those topics which I find complicated to tease out in my mind. However, in terms of marriage it …
Understanding Faith and class and marriage
So yes, in this post I am making yet further generalisations about British-heritage Caucasian Evangelical Christians… Do you ever find that you …
Let’s talk about manipulation
When thinking about this post, I was asking myself once again whether I might have manipulative tendencies. The answer to that is, …
How to say “No”, an amendment
I was recently thinking about the topic of manipulation and thinking that I might have to write a post on that. In …
Tosin’s definitely, definitely not superficial list of period drama actors
This is one of those dubious posts that I sometimes write where my sensible mind is thinking “Tosin, really?!” So there are …
Thinking about romance writing
Well, as I recently related on Facebook, I have recently come across another sweet and lovely true life love story, which I …
In which I am definitely not ranting about yet another church!
So yes, I have recently left yet another church. Prior to this I had not been part of a church for years. …
Let’s talk about…love-bombing
I’m SO tired just now! I’m going to try to get the points of this post down as quickly as possible, then…I’m …
Ask yourself: what is it that you want to be successful at?
Ah, relationship goals. As far as I know, that was not really a phrase back then, as in it was not the …
How to say “No” – that is, how ***I*** truly learned to say “No”
Too long, didn’t read: When you learn to identify true friends in your life, then suddenly saying “No” to everyone else becomes …
Grumbling, moi?!
You know what, I have been deeply shaken by the war in Ukraine. I have no end of admiration for President Volodymyr …
Remembering the past
I’ve just been viewing Facebook pictures of a dear couple from church. Does anyone recognise what I am about to describe? Although …
Thinking about…friendships
So yeah, something “interesting” happened in one of my friendships. I had a big argument with someone, and here a few months …
Merry Christmas 2021
This is the cutest presentation of the Christian Gospel I have ever seen: this video clip has really made my Christmas this …
Choosing to be Soulmates – or what is love, actually?
I think that I have recently realised something that is extremely important – no, desperately important about love. That is this: that …
Cheesy Christmas movie warrants a long overdue blog post!
OK so here’s the thing! I have not posted on this blog in a long time! Actually the last post I wrote …
Completely out of character?
Yeah, I have not posted on here in ages! On the other hand, I completed my “Nidhra and Pradha” story, which is …
Quickpost: The importance of family background
OK, I have not posted here for almost two months. I have been constantly thinking of ideas though. I just have not …
QUICKPOST: Thought-provoking external post: An Indian-American divorce
https://www.elle.com/culture/movies-tv/a35865843/indian-matchmaking-indian-divorce/?utm_source=pocket-newtab-global-en-GB I’ve just read this though-provoking post about the break-up of a marriage, written by the wife, where both spouses happen to …
QUICKPOST: Why do people (men) say that men are more logical than women?!
OK, this is a sincere question, which I am going to try to answer in this post myself: I sincerely do not …
QUICKPOST: Why I’m secretly dreaming of a “lazy” husband
If you are a man, and a potential romantic interaction between us had progressed to the point where we were now actively …
QUICKPOST: On the Meghan Markle Malarkey and talkin’ bout tall guys
Oh wow, I have not written here for almost a month (barring a post which I decided to make private). A very …
But surely, I’m better than *nothing*!
Have you ever been in a situation with someone….who refuses to get the message, that you are not interested in building any …
What happiness means to me
Time for one of those spontaneous posts, methinks! I have just been reading a few posts on the BBC site about what …
Let’s talk yet again about alcohol!
Note to readers: Please bear with me, this post is very much in the cut and paste stage, where I am just …
