The problem with men…[or Please rescue me Mr Huggie-Wuggie!]
On this blog, I have often stated, very matter-of-factly, that guys fall for me very easily. I have not been bragging about …
Dealing with feelings of jealousy
TL:DR; We are all made in the image of God, we all have unique potentials and capabilities. I LOVE to see people …
Unconditional love versus selflessness
Over the last 11 months since the war in Ukraine started, I have been posting daily prayer requests to my Facebook account. …
Non-confrontational? (For want of a better title) – or offering pre-emptive explanations
As I have recently written on this blog, I am extremely busy at the moment. lf anything that was an understatement, which …
Condescending
Let me put my hands up and admit that I do this – a lot! In fact, a heck of a lot. …
Dear Mr Potential Huggie-Wuggie, will you please sing for me?!
If as a man you are reading this, you might sometimes be tempted to think that I only care about my own …
A fairly terrible story (Will poss think of better title later)
Well I’ve just read a fairly terrible story which got me thinking…a woman was suddenly ditched by her boyfriend, out of the …
Post Ideas: Fri 6th January 2023
[Sorry, this post has not had even an initial edit. I have been writing it in such a tired state, and now …
Different post thoughts
It is past 3.00 am as I start this post and I so need to be sleeping! However, I have already been …
Dealing with social pressure to spend money
TL;DR: I simply unfriend people Typing as someone who is proud to be a Nigerian, and grateful to be a Christian, I …
There’s something about vanlifers…
So yeah, I’ve been watching lots of vanlife videos over the last few months. I’ve been considering vanlife for myself because of …
Thinking about post-wedding dating
[A reminder to everyone, just in case this post does not make sense: as born again Christians we aim to avoid pre-marital …
The difference between love and lust – again?!
Here I am writing out this post…again! You know, I think I’ve finally got it, after such a long time of trying …
Falling in love [versus working out love]
Please note, I have written a post about something similar to this recently. As I am working through this idea in my …
How I am planning not to fall prey to domestic abuse by the grace of God
To make it clear, the previous post is about domestic abuse, which is what triggered the idea of writing this post. You …
Yet another reason to choose character over “falling madly in love”
Thankfully this particular story turned out to have a happy ending, because she lived to tell the tale. And yet so many …
Back again banging my favourite drum!
So here I am again, reading another article on Reddits Am I the A**hole forum. Short story: the ostensible reason for the …
Looking for a polite way to say “Please kindly keep your unsolicited opinions to yourself!”
This post is not about marriage, but is rather about my expressing a pet peeve of mine, and trying to work out …
Romantic Love is a lie! (Quote me!)
OK I must admit, I’ve got a bit of a bee in my bonnet about this particular subject. I feel as if …
Marriage at cross purposes
[ Or – Undoubtedly one reason why I am still single! – Men could be all feminist on the outside. However, deep …
Money!
I was just thinking about all the money I have made over the years, and comparing that to my bank balance, and …
Offering the gift of sex
I’ve written so many posts about ahem, sex, and yet here I am blushing away to write another one! The fact is …
How life is like a treadmill
What I am trying to communicate in this post: Giving 100% does not mean constantly sprinting, you will get a lot further …
Thinking about “Rationality”
I’ve just been watching some YouTube “text exchange” videos. To be clear, it is not that that is an official name, I’ve …
Let’s talk about the wonders of Heaven!
[BIBLE VERSES TO FOLLOW] Please note that when I use the term “Heaven” in this particular post, I am using it to …
Let’s talk about…making an effort
Off the top of my head, the fact that the guy failed to make an effort is the reason I have ended …
Let’s talk about why the Prosperity Gospel is evil
I’ve recently watched two videos on YouTube about the Prosperity Gospel. And I thought that I would finally start writing a post …
Operation “Give the Man What He Wants”!
TLDR: Baby boy, I promise that as far as God helps me, you’re not going to know what hit you – in …
Regrets about rudeness
You know what? I think it’s time that I finally apologised for my rudeness towards various people. Now this is a hard …
Don’t settle for love ladies! Insist on strong character instead!
Capitalism – how that is our enemy Love – or rather professions of love, are the cheap alternative to character. All a …
What is most important is who they are, rather than how much they love you
I’ve been reading a few more relationship articles, and I have been remembering, again, that someone’s suitability for a relationship is decided …
Sorry for calling Christians rude names, my conclusion is: Be gracious to other Christians, but do not automatically trust them
You know what? For a while now, months if not years, guilt has been eating up at me regarding a post that …
