Romantic Love is a lie! (Quote me!)
OK I must admit, I’ve got a bit of a bee in my bonnet about this particular subject. I feel as if …
Marriage at cross purposes
[ Or – Undoubtedly one reason why I am still single! – Men could be all feminist on the outside. However, deep …
Money!
I was just thinking about all the money I have made over the years, and comparing that to my bank balance, and …
Offering the gift of sex
I’ve written so many posts about ahem, sex, and yet here I am blushing away to write another one! The fact is …
How life is like a treadmill
What I am trying to communicate in this post: Giving 100% does not mean constantly sprinting, you will get a lot further …
Thinking about “Rationality”
I’ve just been watching some YouTube “text exchange” videos. To be clear, it is not that that is an official name, I’ve …
Let’s talk about the wonders of Heaven!
[BIBLE VERSES TO FOLLOW] Please note that when I use the term “Heaven” in this particular post, I am using it to …
Let’s talk about…making an effort
Off the top of my head, the fact that the guy failed to make an effort is the reason I have ended …
Let’s talk about why the Prosperity Gospel is evil
I’ve recently watched two videos on YouTube about the Prosperity Gospel. And I thought that I would finally start writing a post …
Operation “Give the Man What He Wants”!
TLDR: Baby boy, I promise that as far as God helps me, you’re not going to know what hit you – in …
Regrets about rudeness
You know what? I think it’s time that I finally apologised for my rudeness towards various people. Now this is a hard …
Don’t settle for love ladies! Insist on strong character instead!
Capitalism – how that is our enemy Love – or rather professions of love, are the cheap alternative to character. All a …
What is most important is who they are, rather than how much they love you
I’ve been reading a few more relationship articles, and I have been remembering, again, that someone’s suitability for a relationship is decided …
Sorry for calling Christians rude names, my conclusion is: Be gracious to other Christians, but do not automatically trust them
You know what? For a while now, months if not years, guilt has been eating up at me regarding a post that …
The Queen of Social Awkwardness strikes ***yet*** again!
[Please note: this post is currently so unedited that it is still in “stream of consciousness” mode, ie writing down all the …
Let’s talk about…decision paralysis
“Ponder the path of your feet, And let all your ways be established.” [Also, is a “child-less” life selfish?] You know, one …
But why are people so gullible though?
You know, I think I would naturally fit into the description of a monarchy pragmatist. At heart, I am or should be …
Reddit real life story: Messy husband
Here in this post I will share a real life story that I found on Reddit (Am I the A**hole, where people …
Thoughts on “Religion” and whether or not there is a God
So I’ve just been reading another post on Reddit. I have been mentioning Reddit a lot recently, and there is a good …
Mr Malcolm’s List versus Miss Tosin’s List (SPOILERS)
(Or why I have a list, and you definitely need one too!) Well I have recently taken myself to the cinema and …
Avoiding cheating
Well a few hours ago on Medium I was reading an article about how to spot the signs of cheating. And that …
Confused.me
This is one of those posts that may well be confusing because I am trying to process so many thoughts. Well I …
Confusing but candid post
This is one of those topics which I find complicated to tease out in my mind. However, in terms of marriage it …
Understanding Faith and class and marriage
This post has such a benign sounding title. But please be warned, it is extremely angry, and it is emphatically unflattering about …
Let’s talk about manipulation
When thinking about this post, I was asking myself once again whether I might have manipulative tendencies. The answer to that is, …
How to say “No”, an amendment
I was recently thinking about the topic of manipulation and thinking that I might have to write a post on that. In …
Tosin’s definitely, definitely not superficial list of period drama actors
This is one of those dubious posts that I sometimes write where my sensible mind is thinking “Tosin, really?!” So there are …
Thinking about romance writing
Well, as I recently related on Facebook, I have recently come across another sweet and lovely true life love story, which I …
In which I am definitely not ranting about yet another church!
So yes, I have recently left yet another church. Prior to this I had not been part of a church for years. …
Let’s talk about…love-bombing
I’m SO tired just now! I’m going to try to get the points of this post down as quickly as possible, then…I’m …
Actually, I’m a low-tempo kinda person
How humorous it is that out of all the blog posts I’ve been mentally drafting, this one should win – all the …
Ask yourself: what is it that you want to be successful at?
Ah, relationship goals. As far as I know, that was not really a phrase back then, as in it was not the …
