Now what was that profound thing that I wanted to write?!
Well yesterday (Saturday, technically now two days ago) as I was lying in my bed there was some powerful stuff that I …
New (old) thoughts on love
I’ve been trying to understand marital love for a long time now, and I believe that I have now come to a …
False Impressions…
You know, I hate hinting. So there is this guy, and I genuinely do not know whether he is currently reading this …
Talking about sexual honesty
You know, I was recently remembering someone who I mentioned here a few months ago. A few months ago I wrote a …
One big potential problem in relationships…
I was recently remembering a painful interaction I had with someone – who happened to be female. And that illustrated a big …
When loneliness met the lioness
Well the initial point of this post was to talk about loneliness, but then I [the word temporarily escapes me – …
Talking once again about the physical attraction thing…
You know, I was thinking recently about how I used to be physically attracted to a certain guy. I went on and …
Crushes versus true emotional compatibility
Whenever I have been hit by a crush, it has always been quite a big thing. I have had 2 humongous crushes …
The question is not whether or not it is “true love”. The question is whether or not they are truly worth loving
Apologies this post is a little bit all over the place. It is essentially in brain dump format, rather than the format …
Post Ideas: Fri 6th January 2023
[Sorry, this post has not had even an initial edit. I have been writing it in such a tired state, and now …
There’s something about vanlifers…
So yeah, I’ve been watching lots of vanlife videos over the last few months. I’ve been considering vanlife for myself because of …
Yet another reason to choose character over “falling madly in love”
Thankfully this particular story turned out to have a happy ending, because she lived to tell the tale. And yet so many …
Back again banging my favourite drum!
So here I am again, reading another article on Reddits Am I the A**hole forum. Short story: the ostensible reason for the …
Marriage at cross purposes
[ Or – Undoubtedly one reason why I am still single! – Men could be all feminist on the outside. However, deep …
What is most important is who they are, rather than how much they love you
I’ve been reading a few more relationship articles, and I have been remembering, again, that someone’s suitability for a relationship is decided …
Sorry for calling Christians rude names, my conclusion is: Be gracious to other Christians, but do not automatically trust them
You know what? For a while now, months if not years, guilt has been eating up at me regarding a post that …
Reddit real life story: Messy husband
Here in this post I will share a real life story that I found on Reddit (Am I the A**hole, where people …
Mr Malcolm’s List versus Miss Tosin’s List (SPOILERS)
(Or why I have a list, and you definitely need one too!) Well I have recently taken myself to the cinema and …
Confusing but candid post
This is one of those topics which I find complicated to tease out in my mind. However, in terms of marriage it …
Let’s talk about…love-bombing
I’m SO tired just now! I’m going to try to get the points of this post down as quickly as possible, then…I’m …
Choosing to be Soulmates – or what is love, actually?
I think that I have recently realised something that is extremely important – no, desperately important about love. That is this: that …
Quickpost: The importance of family background
OK, I have not posted here for almost two months. I have been constantly thinking of ideas though. I just have not …
QUICKPOST: Why I’m secretly dreaming of a “lazy” husband
If you are a man, and a potential romantic interaction between us had progressed to the point where we were now actively …
QUICKPOST: On the Meghan Markle Malarkey and talkin’ bout tall guys
Oh wow, I have not written here for almost a month (barring a post which I decided to make private). A very …
Shyness in crushes and reasons for attraction
So here I am writing a somewhat ill-advised late night post. A while ago I established that for myself it was a …
A sexist man’s dilemma…
This is one of my spontaneous posts, and it is one of those posts that may well disappear from this blog once …
