How to say “No” – that is, how ***I*** truly learned to say “No”
Too long, didn’t read: When you learn to identify true friends in your life, then suddenly saying “No” to everyone else becomes …
Grumbling, moi?!
You know what, I have been deeply shaken by the war in Ukraine. I have no end of admiration for President Volodymyr …
Remembering the past
I’ve just been viewing Facebook pictures of a dear couple from church. Does anyone recognise what I am about to describe? Although …
Thinking about…friendships
So yeah, something “interesting” happened in one of my friendships. I had a big argument with someone, and here a few months …
Merry Christmas 2021
This is the cutest presentation of the Christian Gospel I have ever seen: this video clip has really made my Christmas this …
Choosing to be Soulmates – or what is love, actually?
I think that I have recently realised something that is extremely important – no, desperately important about love. That is this: that …
Cheesy Christmas movie warrants a long overdue blog post!
OK so here’s the thing! I have not posted on this blog in a long time! Actually the last post I wrote …
Completely out of character?
Yeah, I have not posted on here in ages! On the other hand, I completed my “Nidhra and Pradha” story, which is …
Quickpost: The importance of family background
OK, I have not posted here for almost two months. I have been constantly thinking of ideas though. I just have not …
QUICKPOST: Thought-provoking external post: An Indian-American divorce
https://www.elle.com/culture/movies-tv/a35865843/indian-matchmaking-indian-divorce/?utm_source=pocket-newtab-global-en-GB I’ve just read this though-provoking post about the break-up of a marriage, written by the wife, where both spouses happen to …
QUICKPOST: Why do people (men) say that men are more logical than women?!
OK, this is a sincere question, which I am going to try to answer in this post myself: I sincerely do not …
QUICKPOST: Why I’m secretly dreaming of a “lazy” husband
If you are a man, and a potential romantic interaction between us had progressed to the point where we were now actively …
QUICKPOST: On the Meghan Markle Malarkey and talkin’ bout tall guys
Oh wow, I have not written here for almost a month (barring a post which I decided to make private). A very …
But surely, I’m better than *nothing*!
Have you ever been in a situation with someone….who refuses to get the message, that you are not interested in building any …
What happiness means to me
Time for one of those spontaneous posts, methinks! I have just been reading a few posts on the BBC site about what …
Let’s talk yet again about alcohol!
Note to readers: Please bear with me, this post is very much in the cut and paste stage, where I am just …
External Post: “How my teenage friendships impacted my adult romantic relationships”
Of late I have often suspected that my youthful weakness in friendships might contribute to my adult confusion in romantic relationships. And …
External Post: I Had a Damned Good Reason for Leaving My Perfect Husband
This tender but sad love story excellently demonstrates why you need to be honest with yourself and your spouse before getting married …
Thinking of instability, thanking for instability
So a few hours ago on Christmas day, here I was sitting at my desk, wanting to type out a festive post. …
Fed up of cooking?
SUPER SPONTANEOUS! BIG DISCLAIMER: Apart from the “baked camembert”, I’ve not actually tried any of the recipes I’ve linked to on this …
Compatibility and Commitment
You know, I’ve been kinda obsessed with character for a long time on this blog! However I have just read an article …
Marrying my best friend versus speaking the soulmate language
This is yet another one of those posts that occurred to me late at night… Firstly, I realised that what I have …
Pursuing Christlikeness is Everything. Really
[I was originally going to call this post “Character is King.” Well after writing it, I will amend that to this: “Character …
Forgiveness: The Difference between “Forgiveness” and “Forgiveness”
Apologies, this post might be somewhat triggering for domestic violence. Like “Infatuation”, Forgiveness is a topic I have tried to write about …
Radical Commitment to Christ?!
OK Christians, please be honest here! What is the first thing that goes through your mind when I suggest a radical commitment …
Let’s talk more about community!
So I’m just sitting here thinking/praying “Lord, I’m lonely! And I really don’t know how to deal with it!” In a way …
Tosin, The No-Drama Queen!
Apologies, this post is a bit rambly, I’ve just literally poured out everything on my mind! OK, I’ve just literally been up …
What Community means to me…
Well, it really has been a while! I was thinking overnight about how deeply my heart beats for community. Actually prior to …
Spontaneous post: And so it finally happened…
…that my long-suffering parents finally decided to step up their respective games of “Let’s get Tosin married!” For the first time really, …
An idea…
I’m sure that many readers will have heard, read, or watched the uploaded video of the incident between Amy Cooper and Christian …
UPDATED: A way forward for “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” 02 May 2020
02 May 2020I hope everyone is keeping well in these COVID-challenged times. I wanted to share a few further thoughts I have …
Happy 9th Birthday to this Blog!
So it was the 9th birthday of this blog last month, but I could not log in because I was locked out….and …
